On New Year's eve, while preparing for my yearly note on how the year has been, I had time to just relax and think of all my accomplishements and blessings. Then came to mind a more personal future plan, getting married. I browsed on the dates of 2013, I know May 21 is not an option because it is not a weekend and it would be difficult to pull off given that its just few months away. Side kwento, it was my dream date to have our BF/GF anniversary be same as our Wedding anniversary, para di siya makalimutan pagtagal, but due to leap year, it fell on a Monday this year, so that dream was long gone.
I have few requirements for our wedding, so I have to take it into consideration on choosing our wedding date. Here goes..
1. It should be on the 21st of the month - well its our number :) at least even if we can't have it on May 21, it would still be a 21 :D
2. It should be a weekend wedding - in our field of work it's so difficult (from my experience) to file for a Vacation Leave, and since we'll be inviting colleagues, reality is that their VLs may not be approved. I know na if I schedule it on a weekday, if our guests love us as much, they would do anything para maka-attend, but I don't want my guests to have that burden, so that's it.
3. My dream wedding is a Destination Wedding - I want it at Tagaytay to be exact. I'm not sure why exactly, pero I have this one reason why I don't want it somewhere in Manila (near CAMANAVA), because I don't want our guests to come just because of the convenience. I want them to come because they really want to be part of our special day. Labo noh? I don't want the burden of them filing a leave but I want them to travel few kilometers south just to witness our vows.. hehe. Well I think it's way easier and would be more meaningful :)
There are only few weekend 21's for 2013 and one of them really caught my attention, where I felt the "this is it moment".
So I decided I can no longer wait for the ring, I know I just have to tell Hon that I've found it, the perfect date, and we need to book a church ASAP! :D
-- May :)
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